Here's a calendar of things that need to happen before your wedding. They don't always have to be done at that time but at least it gives you an idea of what's involved. Keep in mind, though, that some reception sites are booked up to a year in advance. If there is a specific date you want, book it early!
A wedding toast is a tricky thing. It can be a time for flattery, fun and a lot of sentiment. But it can also be a stressful situation, especially for those who have to say something witty on the spot.